Jaime, you have to dust that book off, if only to read her reply to the woman whose daughter was having a nude wedding: “The formality of a wedding is determined by the gentlemen’s dress. What you have here is the most informal of weddings.” She then goes on to let the mother know that the proper invitation for an informal wedding is an informal note, in which one should let the guests know what is planned. She is a very witty and gifted writer. I know I’m weird, but I read her for fun.